A Married Girl (Female, 18-21, Who Cares?) asked: Screenname: karismatic1
Is it right for him to change his career plans for me?
He was applying for alot of out of state jobs, since we've been together he has really limited his search to tri-state area. He told me he used to think career was enough to make him happy and that's why he was willing to go anywhere for it but ever since I came into his life he's known that career isn't enough. He said if he left for an otherwise ideal job tomorrow that took him away from me, he wouldn't be ahppy and he knows it so why even look at mediocre opportunities and risk his happiness.
I'm glad he feels this way because I love him too but i feel selfish, even though i've told him he should move wherever is best for him and i'd stay with him. I want him to be happy and have the best chances possible so I feel bad that he might pass some up to be with me.
Selfish or Silly?
Update: August 28, 2006. Thanks so far guys, just to clarify he is not passing up any dream jobs, he's a sports writer so it's mainly small papers and small colleges...which is not where he wants to be...
He would still take an amazing opportunity if it came, i would make him, and we would work through it. He just would rather take a bit less pay and stay in the southeast with me for the next few years til law school. |