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Have you ever............................
Have you ever............................ / Dating / 11:11 AM - Sunday May 11, 2008
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A Creative (Female, 36-45, Who Cares?) asked:


Have you ever broken somebody's heart?


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A Creative (Female, 46-55, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: nysbikergirl


...so I've been told...and I don't really think I'm done yet.

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A Hippie Chick (Female, 66 or older, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: jwpoc


Sadly yes...and broke mine in the process...it was done to remain true to myself and prevent the other any hurt...yet never made it any easier...

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A Player (Female, New York, 22-25, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: augustbaby82


Yeah, and it hurt me to do that.

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A Thinker (Female, 18-21) answered:

Screenname: catgoesmoo


Yes, and sometimes i feel like this is the reason why i am no longer happy in my dating life, with other guys.

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A Father Figure (Male, Boston, 46-55, Artist / Musician / Writer) answered:

Screenname: regnadkcin


Believe it or not ... yes. I'm not thrilled about it.

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A Career Woman (Female, San Diego, 26-28, Military) answered:

Screenname: tigerlily123


yes i regret every minute of it. I love him so much and now I'm working on mending it.

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A Jock (Male, Vancouver, 18-21, Student) answered:

Screenname: redheadcw


Apparently.

It was never my intention but I simply couldn't keep going with the relationship - she was crazy dramatic and needy.

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: birdland


I don't beleive so, other than the chocolate heart I got on valentine's day.

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A Creative (Female, 22-25, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: leebee


um, yes.
I actually had to have him removed from my property by police last night.

this is 3 months after the fact

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, San Francisco, 56-65) answered:

Screenname: chesterdad


Probably, but with no more intention than the times mine has been, by someone else.

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A Guy Critical (Male, 29-35) answered:

Screenname: quantumronin


Yep...I had some growing up to do, and she was already grown up...I knew that if we stayed together, I'd only hurt her more, so I did what I thought was the right thing at the time, and broke it off. Now I think to myself "Um, you could have just grown up, dumbass."

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: pepperman46


I'm sure I have but I don't know who

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A Married Girl (Female, 29-35, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: divatoonami


So, I have been told...it was with a friend who wanted a relationship....but I told him that I just wanted to be friends....he saw me years later with my hubby and sent me an email that was really hurtful....he is a good man..but I just didn't think of him that way...I am not into fwb relationships and the male friends that I do have...they are completely platonic.

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A Sportif (Female, Dallas, 46-55, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: scooper


yes

I was such an idiot

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An Engaged Guy (Male, 26-28, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: troublemaker


Yes I have but only after she broke mine.

Fare and square.


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A Creative (Female, 36-45, Student) answered:

Screenname: fastball


Yes I have and in all honesty, it broke mine too because I hate to hurt anyone...even when/if they deserve it...:D


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A Sweet Sarah (Female, 26-28, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: bronzy


Once. And a few weeks ago karma struck back.

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A Creative (Female, 46-55, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: 1beachbabe949


I have broken two, possibly three but that was when I was about 20.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 56-65, Technical) answered:

Screenname: drumboi2


A couple of times that I know of.

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A Creative (Male, New York, 36-45, Artist / Musician / Writer) answered:

Screenname: romanticlover007


Unfortunately, yes I have broken many hearts. It's uncontrollable, people fall and you can't make them feel better once they've let their guards down and you don't feel the same about them anymore and you want to move on.

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A Creative (Female, 29-35, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: love2shop


Never, but I've had mine broken a few times. :(

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A Creative (Male, Philadelphia, 29-35, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: dominicanbred


Yes, even when i didnt know that i had done so..

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A Creative (Female, 22-25, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: hollaback63


Yes, although their heart was broken because they couldn't keep treating me the way they wanted to and have me stick around too...so I left, and it broke their heart---but they sort of deserved it. I still sympathize with them, though.

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, 18-21, Student) answered:

Screenname: ashton05


Yes, I did : (

I was scared of the committment and my feelings for him, so I started distancing myself. We lived in the same small town though, and I would run into him everywhere. It killed me to see him so sad, he just wasn't himself...and we had only dated a month.

Eventually we got back together though because I realized what a mistake I had made, and luckily he took me back. We've been together 3 years since then : )

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A Career Woman (Female, New York, 29-35, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: yari


Oh god, yes. It was not easy or fun. I still feel bad for him.

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A Thinker (Female, 66 or older, Retired) answered:

Screenname: shrinkess


Not intentionally.

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A Cool Mom (Female, Toronto, 36-45, Managerial) answered:

Screenname: Nora1968


Yes, at least twice. Sadly, - looking back I realize that both times involved the only people who were half decent to me in the relationship (most of the time, at least). I would do things differently, given the chance today.

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A Thinker (Female, Baltimore, 46-55, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: jpm51


Possibly but not intentionally. There are some men that want you to be much more than just a close or good friend, but they just don't appeal to you to want to be more than just that.

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A Thinker (Female, Baltimore, 46-55, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: jpm51


Possibly but not intentionally. There are some men that want you to be much more than just a close or good friend, but they just don't appeal to you to want to be more than just that.

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 18-21, Student) answered:


Yup but only after she broke mine

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A Cool Mom (Female, 36-45, Law Enforcement) answered:

Screenname: kansascop


Yes and it broke mine too

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A Career Woman (Female, 36-45, Medical / Dental) answered:


Yes, my mom's as a kid and still doing it.It was my revange for her forgetting that i existed. I have a hard time connecting to her now and her heart is still getting broken.But i can't change it. It is 35 years too late.

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A Thinker (Female, Warsaw, 29-35, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: applepie123


someone broke mine:{

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A Creative (Female, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: preciousangel


Yep!

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A Sportif (Female, Vancouver, 36-45, Medical / Dental) answered:

Screenname: vwgirl


Yes.
My mothers when I didn't stay her 5 year old little girl forever.
My Fathers when I brought home my first boyfriend
My 1st boyfriends when I left him to be free to date another boy.
A man I was engaged to when I was in college in 1989. Broke off the engagement after 6 mo because he was a pro hockey player and there was NO WAY I could live the life of one of those wives.
A man I left at the altar when I ws 21

That's about it..that I know of.

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A Thinker (Female, Los Angeles, 26-28, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: lee37


Last week.
(so he says.)

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, Seattle, 46-55, Science / Engineering) answered:

Screenname: electroman


Never. I just couldn't do it. I let her break up with me.

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A Guy Critical (Male, 36-45) answered:

Screenname: tiger8urkat


Sadly.. yes!!!

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, New York, 36-45, Managerial) answered:

Screenname: tnix123


Yes maybe 2 actually. And I have had mine shattered too.

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