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An offer you can't (or can) refuse...
an offer you can't (or can) refuse... / Married Life / 7:36 PM - Sunday May 11, 2008
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A Player (Female, New York, 22-25, Financial / Banking) asked:


Has anyone ever proposed to you?


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An Engaged Girl (Female, 29-35, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: almostsinful


A few men have.. I said *yes* this last time!!! :D

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A Thinker (Female, New York, 56-65, Civil Service) answered:


My 1st husband proposed to me.
I did so to my 2nd.
Speaking of dumb luck....both were dumb, but no luck!

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A Sportif (Female, 22-25) answered:

Screenname: dsquared


Oh memories. I've been proposed to once. He was a beautiful guy, who I cared for very much, and who I respect and admire. I loved who he was as a person, but I certainly didn't love him. He was a NAVY seal, absolutely one of the kindest, amazing men in the world. He of course felt like we should cease the moment, and I couldn't dream of such a thing at the age of 18 so I said no. But of course we broke up a few months after that. He picked a ring, and it broke his heart but I couldn't marry him, then and I certainly wouldn't marry him now.

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A Thinker (Female, 29-35, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: arynn


yes, just once...i was 19 and he knocked me up. i didn't want to get married b/c of the pregnancy. best thing i ever said no to!

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, Charlotte, Who Cares?, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: smartblond


five times.. I married two of them... the first lasted a little over a year.. the second nearly 20 years.. the other three I turned down

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A Mr. Nice Guy (Male, 46-55) answered:

Screenname: pepperman46


no, not the traditional proposal

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A Guy Critical (Male, 56-65, Transportation) answered:

Screenname: nuttyprofessor


NO.........only accepted.

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A Rebel (Male, 18-21) answered:

Screenname: chilledoutboy


in indian communities, the older women scout the guys and then report back to anyone who is looking for a husband for their daughters

since i look older than i am i've had about 5 or 6 people ask about me...shame the women were too old :)

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A Thinker (Female, 26-28) answered:

Screenname: anjeweleyez01


Yes, but I told him n because he cheated on me

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A Cool Mom (Female, 29-35, Fitness) answered:

Screenname: cheerdemon


4 guys. i got engaged 3 times... married twice... rejected one.

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An Engaged Girl (Female, Cleveland, 26-28, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: carriesueud


Yes, bf did...we were drunk though, so i wasn't official. Haha!!! :)

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An Alternative Girl (Female, 26-28, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: gbanga


Two ppl have.. I said no.

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A Hip-Hop Guy (Male, Detroit, 22-25, Student) answered:

Screenname: king313


Nope.

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A Career Woman (Female, Who Cares?, Celebrity) answered:

Screenname: luckycowgirl


yep..

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A Sportif (Female, Dallas, 46-55, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: scooper


yes and we have been married 24 years

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A Thinker (Female, 29-35, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: princesaboricua


No, although I have been married for 14 years, I wasn't proposed to it was more like okay we either get married or start a family without being married. I guess I really never considered it, but now that I think about it I never gave myself a chance to get a proposal...

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A Thinker (Female, New York, 29-35, Teaching) answered:

Screenname: electragold21


Yes, three people, multiple times per person. The last time the last person asked me, I started to cry because I wished he wouldn't do that AGAIN. :P

The whole "down on his knee with the ring" thing is overrated--especially when it's not the person you WANT to be down on his knee...

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: maggie1212


Yes 4 times. One I was married to.
One engaged and, I broke it off because, once we were engaged he wanted all my time, didn't want me to be with my friends anymore.
2 of them, I said no.

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A Creative (Female, 46-55, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: 1beachbabe949


My ex husband the first time and I said no, ask me after a few months, so he did and I said yes. After over 19 years of marriage we were divorced as I started proceedings, and before it was final he proposed again and I said No. Then once again about three months ago, but I have no desire to marry and this would entail moving to Kona, Hawaii and my two wonderful children reside here in California and so does my elderly father.

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A Thinker (Female, 56-65, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: dloskot


Yes, a few. I "only" accepted three of them though.

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, 18-21, Student) answered:

Screenname: ashton05


Nope, but I think that might change this summer! :D Can't wait!

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A Career Woman (Female, New York, 29-35, Financial / Banking) answered:

Screenname: yari


Yes, it's just unfortunate that the marriage didn't last. I would love to be proposed to again!

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A Creative (Female, 36-45, Student) answered:

Screenname: fastball


Yes, I've been proposed to twice and was actually engaged for over 6 months with one before I broke the engagement when I found out he was still with an ex and the second time I was engaged for 9 months when he told me he wasn't sure if marriage would work, he was too much of a mama's boy and let his mom give him doubts about marriage...:D

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A Creative (Male, 36-45, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: hands


Someone did in my High School year book once.

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A Thinker (Female, St.Louis, 29-35, Other Profession) answered:

Screenname: michellekia


..yes..and I should have ran the other way down the street..

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A Thinker (Female, Baltimore, 46-55, Administrative) answered:

Screenname: jpm51


Just my ex husband a year before we got married in the 1970s while in college.

Many men these days are not even thinking about marrying for the first or second time. All I hear about is the 'excuse' of how many divorces they friends and other family members are or have gone through - and they don't want to take that chance with anyone.

Excuses........excuses

You have to take chances in life sometimes......that is what living is all about.

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An Alternative Girl (Female, Boston, 22-25, Managerial) answered:

Screenname: distressedchick


Yes, My current boyfriend asks me acouple times a week. I sometimes say "maybe" and sometimes say "yes" and sometimes say "i'll only answer you if you have a ring and your down on one knee (asking me for REAL!) " so, he knows. it's a yes :)

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A Thinker (Female, 18-21, Student) answered:

Screenname: lilweirdme


31/12/07

1.20pm :P and i didnt say yes
i said uh hu :P

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A Cool Mom (Female, 36-45, Law Enforcement) answered:

Screenname: kansascop


Yes and 26 years later I'm still married to him.

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A Career Woman (Female, 36-45, Medical / Dental) answered:


No i did it and I hate it. My husband never initiates anything.He forgets that he has to do some stuff too and act once a while.So I told him ,what do you think if we get ingaged this summer( 9 years ago), he said what ever you say, you let me know when. a year later I told him what you think if we get married, he told me you let me know when,so I can take the ime of off work.HOW ROMANTIC.So we went to the court and signed some papers and got married.

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A Creative (Female, 46-55, Self-Employed) answered:

Screenname: preciousangel


Lots of times in the past...geezzz!

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A Thinker (Female, Denver, 36-45, Executive) answered:

Screenname: sweetnovember


I've had 7 serious marriage proposals...I only said yes to one!

Have a great day augustbaby!

Have you?????

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A Thinker (Female, 56-65, Artist / Musician / Writer) answered:

Screenname: marc01


yes, about 4 times. first 1 I accepted and was married 35 yrs until he got killed in a car accident. 2. right after husband's death, I said emphatically a no, I'd caught him cheating. 3. a pastor but He would get angry real fast and half of the time I didn't even know just what I'd done to make him so angry. Plus he was so jealous and I'm friendly by nature, love to chatter with everybody. 4. I said yes again,
we are engaged and plan marriage this year. He's a man I dreamed of all my life, however he does have some qualities likewise to my former husband. I can hardly wait for the big day.

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A Thinker (Female, Los Angeles, 26-28, Who Cares?) answered:

Screenname: lee37


Yes.

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55, Lawyer) answered:

Screenname: loveschild


Yes.

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