Get this: My monster-in-law had a mothers day party and didnt extend the invitation to me! The worst part was I asked my husband if he was going to see her today and he said he couldnt make OUR dinner because he was going to have dinner with HER at her house. He left the house around noon and I havent seen him since. My instincts told me (since she usually has a annual party on Mday) to do a quick drive by ( this was 3pm)..and sure as shit she had an entire driveway and street full of relatives' cars. He LIED to me and said it was just going to be she and him!! What a bunch of classless-liars!! I am SOOO done with him and them. If there was a spark of hope-he just pissed on it and put it out!
The good news is that I turned off my cell and decided that I was going to enjoy my kids today and I was not going to let him ruin that. We went with my parents out for a nice dinner that HE was invited to and then we went and actually played wheel of fortune! Its been forever since I sat around and played a game with my family. (It was nice to laugh)
Although, now that the kids are in bed; I am so hurt and in dismay that he is this guy now that I never would have imagined him capable of being 4 years ago when things were wonderful. The end is always so sad....

Update: May 13, 2008.
just thought you may find this interesting. SO the Mothers day lie...he ends up not coming home(still hasnt;its tuesday noon-ish). I only got a text from him last night saying he wants his phone charger.It took him all that time to only come up with this defense: - that there is NO reason on this planet he should have been with me on Mothers day that it it all about her.He didnt even remember that he lied and said it was only going to be she and him! No mention of her not extending the invite to me !! How clueless can a grown man get? Wow..I just dont have the energy to educate him on CLASS and what it means to have a WIFE....so sad...thx for listening..just thought youd find that the cherry on the sundae.

Update: May 12, 2008.
I appreciate your thoughtful response. I wish I had stars for everyone! It was nice to know that I wasn't out of reason with my reaction to this situation. He IS sleeping over at MOMMA'S-forever for all Im concerned...But back to the point: I really did even get choked up with some of your thoughtful responses. I see now that she is the reason I have had to 'teach' him to be respectful and try to be a good example for my kids..she just didnt do her job. Well, she can have him back! I've got 3 kids to raise dont need a grown man to teach how to respect someone. Loves and thank you again! ((Hugs back!))xoxo