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untitled / Dating / 12:34 AM - Monday May 12, 2008
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(Female, 18-21) asked:


if a guy u are friends with sends u sms messages, and wants to meet for a drink, could there be a chance he wants to be more than "just friends" what r some signs to look for?


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An Intellectual Guy (Male, Houston, 36-45, Self-Employed) answered:

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I believe you just stated one of the signs to look for in your question!

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A Rebel (Male, Pittsburgh, 36-45, Managerial) answered:

Screenname: bytor


"Is there a chance"?.....

There's ALWAYS a chance... why not just ASK him what he's feeling, and stop texting each other?!?!?!

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A Sportif (Female, Chicago, 36-45, Student) answered:

Screenname: giannagianna


see if he just needs to talk, or looking for someone to just hang with. You will know if he sends out the vibe. (Or grabs your butt!!) xoxo

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A Married Girl (Female, 36-45, Student) answered:

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Well thats a start.

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A Sportif (Female, 22-25) answered:

Screenname: dsquared


LOL. My guy friends. Oh heaven's no, their gorgeous and all but SO NOT my types.

Here are a few tips/questions to ask yourself.

1. In the time that you two have been friends how has the relationship developed? i.e was or is it flirtatious?

2. How long or often do you two talk, and what about?

3. Did you build a friendship on the hopes of it being something more?

After you're done with those consider his actions towards you in the beginning, in the middle, and now. What has stirred this sudden interest in you for him? Signs to look for? hmmm...the only sign worth reading is the one he that he says through words and actions.

Otherwise you'll sit here and assume what he's thinking. Talk to him, once you've figured out why you want to or are considering him on that level share your thoughts with him. Truth shouldn't be masked because of fear, and who knows he may have a few things to share. Good luck! :)

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A Thinker (Female, Who Cares?, Other Profession) answered:

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If he trys to hold your hand

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, Chicago, 22-25, Self-Employed) answered:


Just think, would he ask a morbidly obese person for a drink? Unless he likes hot big women. :P

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, 22-25, Science / Engineering) answered:

Screenname: milor


Any man already has tons of friends with facial hair and hairy legs that are probably ten times more fun for him to hang out with than you could possibly be.

So if he invites you anywhere, anytime, for anything, it's 99 times out of 100 related to male-to-female interest.

I would think it'd be obvious to everyone.

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