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I reallly need help on this one... BAD / Dating / 1:09 AM - Monday May 12, 2008
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A Career Woman (Female, 22-25, Who Cares?) asked:


Ok you guys I reeeeally really need help on this one: its important

In relationships, how much space do you require??

first question: how long have you been with them

second question: How much space do you like to have...


...this is going to help so much if you guys could answer... xoxo


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A Thinker (Female, 22-25, Military) answered:

Screenname: misssparkle


A year, we see each other just about everyday.

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A Thinker (Female, 46-55, Retired) answered:

Screenname: ivoryfresh


It doesn't matter how long I've been with somebody... I don't need to be with them all day EVERYDAY. I like my time alone. I don't have a problem with it. And I don't need to have them phone me on a daily basis either. Actually I hate being on the phone. Call, say what you need to say or find out and get off. Now I'm happy. ;0)

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A Guy Critical (Male, Denver, 46-55, Science / Engineering) answered:

Screenname: cosmicdog0


Ever guy wants something different. Sometime we don't even know what we want. sorry, but you are on your own with this one. You'll just have to read your guy. Does he want more or less. Does he want more space when he says he want to be close. Or be close when he walks away. Every guy is different and learning how much space is too much is all part of getting to know each other.

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A Thinker (Female, New York, 29-35, Teaching) answered:

Screenname: electragold21


Personally, I sort of need a lot of space. I love my time alone. I don't really like a lot of time on the phone. I like that someone is "there" for me, and I like someone to go to on weekends, but my weekdays are there for me to do work. And my work is very important to me and my guy needs to respect that.

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A Creative (Female, 36-45, Student) answered:

Screenname: fastball


I like to continue having my own space and time to myself to continue doing those things that I love...I've been with my guy for 15 months now...since my guy and I don't spend a lot of time together because of his job, I tend to try to spend all his days off with him and try to make certain that we are doing things we both enjoy...since we both love sports and both love the outdoors, he will sometimes come to watch me practice fastball or we will go to the lake and enjoy the water...I think that you spend as much time as you are both comfortable with and ensure that you both continue doing the things you did before becoming a couple but also make time to spend time together...if my guy were here everyday, I would probably spend every second day with him so that the relationship doesn't go stale or we don't feel we are spending too much time together...:D

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A Sweet Sarah (Female, Las Vegas, 18-21, Student) answered:

Screenname: sdc1806


I agree with it doesn't matter how long you've been together!! It's about saving some excitment. If you are together every second then you will suffocate eachother and it will be over sooner then later!! Me and my ex set up a schedule so that we wouldn't crowd eachother! 2 days a week he would spend time and sleep at my place and 2 days at his places and the other 3 days spend with our family and our friends!! Of course your welcome to talk and maybe meet for lunch on your days off but give eachother breathing room!!! Hope everything works out!

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An Intellectual Guy (Male, 46-55, Medical / Dental) answered:

Screenname: ptawillis


My Lady If I love and care for somone I would like to be with them as much as I can and they will let you know if you become to involved or they need time alone , It good to have a little time to yourself to think and plan for your future and Just be YOU!!! If you get to close to me and step on my toes I will holler at you OK!!Just respect each other and most of all-- COMMUNICATE!!

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A Career Woman (Female, Philadelphia, 36-45, Other Profession) answered:


Well when I was married, my husband telling me he needed his space, was in reality, He had his eye on another women, so he left me. But in your case this may not be true. I just really find the bad ones.
If you man needs his space. I would be careful with this one.

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